Straight guy in gay bar to hook up

Gay bars have become quite popular over the years and as a result, more and more straight men and women have been flocking to gay bars to get a piece of the action. While we accept people of all sexualities, there are a few unspoken rules that we would prefer to be followed while at gay bars.

This article is specifically for straight men and tips for not only enjoying your time at a gay bar, but also for being respectful to the gay community while you are there. Trust me when I say that as a straight man, most guys in a gay bar can see your intentions clear as day.

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We know you want nothing to do with hooking up with another man and they will respect that. Guy it makes you do is look homophobic. Think about how women react when in a room with a bunch of men. They are gay and just talking as people and nothing more. And they are not assuming that every single man in the room wants to get hook them.

So you should be straight to behave the same way in a gay bar. Admittedly though, there will be guys who do want to get to know you a bit more intimately than you would like, bar leads me to my next point…. Even though we can tell you are straight, some gay guys will still try talking to you and flirting hook you.

It is very similar to how straight men like trying to get girls to convert to lesbians. If a gay guy is hitting on you, straight be polite and respectful. Have meaningful conversation like you would with any other person. Why is that any different if it is coming from a gay guy? Odds are that this guy just had too much to drink so try not to hold it against him.

And trust me when I say that getting into a physical confrontation with the guy will not guy over well for you. In fact, he most likely wants to get laid himself. Make some new friends, or just see yourself out and let him enjoy the rest of the night. You can always hang out with him on another night, but he may not get the chance with this guy ever again.

Before you go out you should be willing and prepared to duke it out on your own halfway through the night if your friend gets lucky. A terrific way to avoid the situation where you are stuck bar at the gay bar because your one friend you came with is gay up, is to simply come with a bunch of gay friends.

If any one of them meet someone special there, they can simply detach from the rest of the party while you still have a bunch of other great guys to hang out with. In fact, being the only straight man in a group of gay guys can make you the feel special, being the only one in the party that is completely unobtainable, at least to all of the other men in the bar!

We get it — you rarely go to a gay bar and thing seeing the rainbow flags and endless thralls of guys to be insane. We just see a typical bar, and having someone tell us how crazy the place is will not sit well with us. Just treat like a regular old bar you go to normally.